On our third date, he told me he had sex with hundreds of prostitutes…while he was married. You might be picturing a toothless unemployable criminal, but he was a charming, intelligent, attractive, and successful lawyer. I had fallen hard for him in a short time period. His confession blindsided me. I immediately wondered the obvious — why would you admit that to someone you are dating unless you were in self-sabotage mode? I asked a few friends. One friend's reply was enligh
Ladies, when we pull away, it’s instinctive for men to chase us. But sometimes this results on us pushing even further away. It can be frustrating for men when things turn around. One day, we are sending flirty texts in the middle of the day, and available whenever they want to hang out, but all of a sudden, we can get distant. We begin to take up to two days to reply to texts. And when men ask us to hang out, we have excuses like, “Ooh… I can’t make it; it’s my cousin’s birt
Winston Churchill once said, “Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.” What is your attitude—right now, at this moment—toward your spouse? Your kids? Your supervisor? Your employee? Toward life in general? Are you feeling . . . like a victim or a victor? ungrateful or appreciative? bitter or tender? angry or joyful? betrayed or beloved? critical or congratulatory? negative or positive? pessimistic or hopeful? resentful or content? ON A DATE THIS WEEKEND??? 🛑
You’d think it would be so easy. If someone texts you, text them back.
If someone calls you, call them back.
If someone DMs you, message them back. So why, then, have so few men got the message? Angelika was sure her new love interest was ignoring her. She’d left him a number of messages on Facebook, and he never replied. Lola wrote lovely texts to her guy, full of exclamation points and emojis, and all she ever got back were an “ok” or “sure” or “c u then.” Callie would call